Thanksgiving is about giving thanks and sharing the holidays with the people we love or maybe not, LOL! At our house, we usually host those that can’t make it home. Some years we have had a full house and some years we’ve had just a few people. Friends bring friends or someone they know doesn’t have a place to go, we don’t discriminate. One year, my girlfriend Nick brought the local mailman. It always makes it more enjoyable and interesting. We have a tradition where we go around the table and say what we are thankful for… The guys all groan, it puts our new guests on the spot and the rest of the “regulars” giggle. It always ends up being fun and meaningful. The best thing about an orphan Thanksgiving is there is no drama, complaining, or conflicts. Everyone is just happy to have a place to come together and usually our dinners last well into the evening.
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This year Thanksgiving has extra meaning for me. It’s no secret that I have not blogged over the last few months. My creativity and mind has been pre-occupied by something bigger. As you know my posts started to get less frequent last spring just as I was getting new readers. I was so excited that you took the time to read my blog. Especially knowing how many amazing bloggers there are out there. Mine started as a way to communicate with my friends and along the way I met new friends. The one thing I admired about many bloggers was their ability to be truthful and sincere. I think it’s time I’m honest with all of you. I really struggled over whether I should divulge this because doing so means I am divulging this to some of my friends who will be hearing this for the first time. But I finally realized, the importance of honesty and how as women we really need to share information. By sharing information, we can make better and more informed to decisions and assist each other along the way. It is my hope that I can lend a hand to someone and/or guide them like so many did for me. The truth of the matter is….in June after having a lumpectomy, I was diagnosed with the early stages of Breast Cancer.
Over the next four months I had two additional surgeries, a whole lot of doctors appointments (14 but who’s counting), two MRI’s, a set of titanium clips and a pair or lovely wires put into my boob. I went from one doctor to four and a whole lot of second opinions. The positive news is my cancer was non-invasive and chemo was not required. However, five weeks of radiation was required. I am happy to report this Wednesday, the day before Thanksgiving is my last day of treatment. While there are many factors that go into treatment, I won’t bore you with the details now but at some point, I will share with you things that you should look for and how my diagnosis came to be. Had it not been for four of my friends that had breast cancer, I would still be walking around with BC and going untreated. It’s so important to trust your instincts and know what questions to ask. We must be our own advocate and as women share information. I consider myself very fortunate and extremely lucky. Especially, since the people I know people had to face far more than me. Overall, I feel everything happens for a reason, and truly believe my cancer was found because I listened to my inner voice and had an amazing doctor. I have much to be grateful for this Thanksgiving.
As you can imagine, I had to take a step back from blogging. There were so many times I wanted to blog but in the end, I just didn’t have the energy. I worried about losing my subscribers if I wasn’t blogging regularly. Then I thought, I can’t get caught up in that. I do have to say I had some faithful readers who have twittered or emailed me. Especially, Ms. Katie at www.goodniteirene.com who has an amazing blog (gorgeous images and has an amazing writing style). I only wish I could write like her or come up with the adjectives and analogies like she does. Also, Ms. Karen at http://gardenhomeandparty.com/ who is always so kind and we share a love for gardening. Living in LA we all have our limitations, so I love watching what she does with her small space. I just want to say thank you to you both! I look forward to getting back to blogging!
I want to thank my family and friends for being so supportive. I also want thank my two roommates from college Laura and Cari for coming to visit me in October. I know how hard it was for them having families but it meant to the world to me. It was great to have my East Coast friends meet my West Coast friends. Some for the first time. It was truly a special and magical weekend for me. Friendship is such an amazing gift and I’m very grateful for the wonderful friends I have. They have been there every step of the way for me with giggles, their kindness, and listening to all my crazy doctor stories.
Cari – Laura – Ann in Palos Verdes
Thanksgiving is also about celebrating friends, family, and being there for someone in need. The holidays can make any of us a little crazy. May we all be a little kinder and say please and thank you. Everyone wants to feel appreciated. It’s time to extend a hand and remember that it’s about giving back and remembering what is most important. I want to wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving! Thank you for being such loyal and fabulous readers and bloggers. I look forward to a fresh beginning and getting back to blogging.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
~ Happy Thanksgiving ~